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Proto \u010dasto sl\u00fdch\u00e1me, \u017ee d\u011bti nejsou stejn\u00e9 a na ka\u017ed\u00e9 plat\u00ed","datePublished":"2022-08-11","dateModified":"2023-05-15","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.arbitra.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.arbitra.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/8eaf08ef5a7e54fc91db02b2058b03bc913caaaa39c046819bbf43d06bd23c2b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/8eaf08ef5a7e54fc91db02b2058b03bc913caaaa39c046819bbf43d06bd23c2b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"arbitra.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.arbitra.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/the-cry-4762423_960_720.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.arbitra.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/the-cry-4762423_960_720.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.arbitra.cz\/vysvetlovani-detem-neni-jednoduche\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":837,"articleBody":"A\u0165 m\u00e1me d\u011bti nebo ne, jist\u011b n\u00e1s napad\u00e1 spousta ot\u00e1zek, na kter\u00e9 nezn\u00e1me odpov\u011bdi. M\u016f\u017eeme si b\u00fdt jist\u00ed jednou v\u011bc\u00ed, \u017ee se mus\u00edme spol\u00e9hat sami na sebe.\u00a0 Zku\u0161enosti a rady jsou samoz\u0159ejm\u011b k\u00a0nezaplacen\u00ed, ale ne na ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b funguj\u00ed. Proto \u010dasto sl\u00fdch\u00e1me, \u017ee d\u011bti nejsou stejn\u00e9 a na ka\u017ed\u00e9 plat\u00ed n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho. Dnes se ale zam\u011b\u0159\u00edme na ur\u010ditou v\u011bc a tou je: JAK\u00ddM ZP\u016eSOBEM D\u00cdT\u011aTI VYSV\u011aTLUJEME, CO SM\u00cd A CO NE?Jist\u011b ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1me sv\u00e9 metody, a\u0165 ty, co pova\u017eujeme za spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 nebo ty, kter\u00e9 pod\u011bd\u00edme radou od babi\u010dek. Ne v\u017edy jsou to ale metody spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 nebo platn\u00e9 na na\u0161e d\u00edtko. Jak u\u017e jsme n\u011bkolikr\u00e1t za \u017eivot sly\u0161eli, na ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b funguje n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b n\u00e1m nezb\u00fdv\u00e1 jin\u00e1 varianta, ne\u017e zkou\u0161et r\u016fzn\u00e9 praktiky.JAK D\u00cdT\u011aTI VYSV\u011aTLIT, CO SM\u00cd A CO NE? D\u00edt\u011bti po dobr\u00e9m vysv\u011btl\u00edme, co je a co nen\u00ed spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 a d\u00edt\u011b pochop\u00ed. D\u00edt\u011bti po dobr\u00e9m, ale d\u016frazn\u011b vysv\u011btl\u00edme danou v\u011bc a vy\u010dk\u00e1me na reakci.D\u00edt\u011bti d\u016frazn\u011b a k\u0159ikem vysv\u011btlujeme, co sm\u00ed a co ne. D\u00edt\u011bti s\u00a0k\u0159ikem, nad\u00e1vkami sna\u017e\u00edme vnutit to, co je spr\u00e1vn\u00e9D\u00edt\u011bti pl\u00e1cneme na zadek, proto\u017ee jak\u00e1koliv promluva k\u00a0n\u011bmu je zbyte\u010dn\u00e1 a neefektivn\u00ed.Zda m\u00e1me takov\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, kter\u00e9 si po dobr\u00e9m nech\u00e1 vysv\u011btlit, co sm\u00ed a co ne, pak m\u016f\u017eeme sk\u00e1kat metr vysoko. Ne ka\u017ed\u00e9mu rodi\u010di se po\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed m\u00edt tak poslu\u0161n\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, kter\u00e9 nemus\u00edte stokr\u00e1t ok\u0159ikovat. Jestli\u017ee mus\u00edte d\u016frazn\u011bji vysv\u011btlovat cokoliv Va\u0161emu d\u00edt\u011bti, pak nezoufejte, nejste prvn\u00ed ani posledn\u00ed. Po\u0159\u00e1d d\u016frazn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed vysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed neznamen\u00e1 konec sv\u011bta.P\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00edme k\u00a0t\u0159et\u00edmu bodu, kde k\u00a0vysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed jsme nuceni pou\u017e\u00edt k\u0159ik. Jestli\u017ee to nejde po dobr\u00e9m, pak bohu\u017eel \u010dasto rodi\u010de pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed domlouv\u00e1n\u00ed v\u00a0podob\u011b k\u0159iku. Bohu\u017eel to n\u011bkdy nejde jin\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem, a tak si rodi\u010de na d\u00edtko zak\u0159i\u010d\u00ed. Mnoz\u00ed z\u00a0n\u00e1s to zn\u00e1me, \u017ee n\u011bkdy nen\u00ed jin\u00e9 v\u00fdchodisko. Jin\u00ed to odsuzuj\u00ed a krout\u00ed hlavou, co jsme za rodi\u010de. I p\u0159es ve\u0161ker\u00e9 \u00fasil\u00ed a snahu se udr\u017eet, bohu\u017eel i b\u011bhem k\u0159iku na d\u00edt\u011b ul\u00edtne nad\u00e1vka. Jestli\u017ee se sna\u017e\u00edme po n\u011bkolik\u00e1t\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011bti vysv\u011btlit jakoukoli v\u011bc, d\u00edt\u011b neposlechne i p\u0159es d\u016frazn\u00fd z\u00e1kaz, pak se m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t, \u017ee n\u00e1m ul\u00edtne nad\u00e1vka. I kdy\u017e nechceme, stalo se a pak toho velmi litujeme. N\u011bkdy se m\u016f\u017eeme sna\u017eit jak chceme a bohu\u017eel nepom\u016f\u017ee zv\u00fd\u0161it hlas, ani k\u0159ik nebo desetkr\u00e1t napom\u00ednat. Pak ve v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f napl\u00e1c\u00e1me d\u00edt\u011bti na zadek. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b to nen\u00ed \u00fapln\u011b spr\u00e1vn\u00e9, ale ob\u010das je to tak moc, \u017ee nejde jinak. Jako m\u00e1me zast\u00e1nce d\u00e1t d\u00edt\u011bti na zadek, tak i odp\u016frce. Nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, zda m\u00e1me jedno nebo v\u00edce d\u011bt\u00ed. V\u017edy se sna\u017e\u00edme v\u00e9st d\u00edt\u011b t\u00edm spr\u00e1vn\u00fdm sm\u011brem. Jist\u011b, \u017ee v\u00fdchova nen\u00ed jednoduch\u00e1, ale velmi d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 pro rozvoj na\u0161eho d\u00edt\u011bte. To, jak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem jedn\u00e1me s\u00a0na\u0161\u00edm d\u00edtkem, se v\u00a0pozd\u011bj\u0161\u00edm v\u011bk\u016f m\u016f\u017ee projevit na jeho chov\u00e1n\u00ed. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 k\u00a0vysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed ur\u010dit\u00fdch v\u011bc\u00ed p\u0159istupovat rozumn\u011b. I kdy\u017e to n\u011bkdy nejde okam\u017eit\u011b po dobr\u00e9m, je zapot\u0159eb\u00ed m\u00edt u n\u011bjakou trp\u011blivost. A\u0165 se n\u00e1m to l\u00edb\u00ed nebo ne, n\u011bkter\u00e9 d\u011bti pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed v\u00edce \u010dasu na pochopen\u00ed. Dal\u0161\u00ed v\u011bc\u00ed a podstatnou je, \u017ee d\u011bti jsou rozd\u00edln\u00e9. Mil\u00fd rodi\u010dov\u00e9, ne\u017e pou\u017eijete p\u0159\u00edsn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed zp\u016fsob vysv\u011btlovan\u00ed, zkuste se zamyslet nad t\u00edm. Je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee n\u011bkdy vysv\u011btlujeme v\u011bci p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 slo\u017eit\u011b na to, aby to d\u00edt\u011b pochopilo. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b se n\u011bkdy sna\u017e\u00edme a d\u011bti jednodu\u0161e s\u00a0n\u00e1mi cht\u011bj\u00ed cvi\u010dit a zkou\u0161\u00ed, co vydr\u017e\u00edme. No nen\u00ed to nic nov\u00e9ho, je ale ot\u00e1zkou, kam a\u017e dalece to nech\u00e1me zaj\u00edt. TRP\u011aLIVOST, TRP\u011aLIVOST\u2026.. jednou V\u00e1s d\u00edt\u011b poslechne, dejte mu \u010das.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         4.2\/5 - (6 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Vysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u011btem nen\u00ed jednoduch\u00e9….","item":"https:\/\/www.arbitra.cz\/vysvetlovani-detem-neni-jednoduche\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]